Answer:
Light me up in backyard gatherings
I belong to you but others use me more often than you do
What is harder to catch the faster you run?
I begin and have no end. Eventually, I will be the ending of all that has begun. What am I?
My first is second in line; I send shivers up your spine; not quite shining bright I glitter in the light.
Give it food and it will live, give it water and it will die.