Answer:
They have not flesh, nor feathers, nor scales, nor bone. Yet they have fingers and thumbs of their own. What are they?
What is it that was given to you, belongs only to you. And yet your friends use it more than you do?
What is lengthened by being cut at both ends?
All about the house, with his lady he dances, yet he always works, and never romances.
They are many and one, they wave and they drum, Used to cover a state, they go with you everywhere.
I am rarely touched but often held. If you are smart you'll use me well. What am I?