Answer:
I am a popular afterlife location to send evil people
I encourage people to run home and steal
I am a house with two occupants sometimes one rarely three. Break the walls eat the boarders then throw away me.
I am what brings things together. Without me everything you see would be a total mass or debris everywhere. What am I?
What gets broken without being held?
Give it food and it will live, give it water and it will die.