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I am enjoyed with a pot and some pointy sticks.
A necessity to some, a treasure to many, I'm best enjoyed among pleasant company. Some like me hot, some like me cold. Some prefer mild, some like me bold. What am I?
I go from house to house a messenger small and tight. Whether it rains or snows I sleep outside at night.
I hold two meanings. With one I may be broken, with the other I hold on. What am I?
Lovely and round, I shine with pale light. Grown in the darkness, a lady's delight. What am I?
Give it food and it will live, give it water and it will die.