Answer:
A red drum which sounds without being touched, and grows silent, when it is touched.
My second is performed by my first, and it is thought a thief by the marks of my whole might be caught.
During the 1800's these turned women into hourglasses and is becoming more popular again these days
I fly through the air on small feathered wings, seeking out life and destroying all things.
Of these things - I have two. One for me - and one for you. And when you ask about the price, I simply smile and nod twice.
I can only be played on a windy day