Answer:
Almost everyone needs it, asks for it, gives it. But almost nobody takes it.
I'm not really more than holes tied to more holes. I'm strong as good steel, though not as stiff as a pole.
You throw me out when you want to use me and you take me in when you don't want to use me. Who am I?
What turns from red to black as soon as it touches water?
Hoofed frolicking.
Why was the cook arrested?