Answer:
Slang for the male half in a marriage.
It is hate and has hate in it, but it isnβt hate.
What has a neck and no head, two arms but no hands?
How do you spell hard water with only three letters?
What has 4 fingers and a thumb, but is not living?
If itβs information you seek, come and see me. If itβs pairs of letters you need, I have consecutively three. What am I?